How to be Approachable and Have That Special Magnetism?

Girl with clear coloring with girl, who´s colors are warm


Have you noticed that people are magically drawn to you? Or maybe not? Do you think your life would turn around for the better, if only people wanted to be more in contact with you? What would help you achieve people´s attention more?

Just the other day a friend of mine was telling me that whenever she dresses up in the colors that she has learned that are her best colors and an extension to her own coloring, people take notice of her much more, than when she wears something that does not agree with her personal coloring.

When wearing colors that are not emphasizing your own colors, it is the clothes that take center stage and you are left in the background. This is completely ok, if you are a model, who wants to show the clothes or you are representing a special cause or product that has a certain color and needs to be center stage. 

In our everyday lives, we have a fuller life when we are at the center of attention and wear clothes that support our own special personality with our own best colors. 

Another friend told me of a meeting, where she met with a lady, who was absolutely radiating in her orange shawl. She was stunning and my friend couldn´t get her out of her mind. The lady in orange had made a lasting impression on my friend. After such a meeting, my friend would have been interested in getting to know that lady more, because she seemed interesting. Thanks to the colors she was wearing! That is what harmony does. We want more of it, when we see or hear harmonious things because it feels good.

Both of these ladies were actually saying that they had “heard” colors, without knowing it. They didn´t know that they could be saying that the colors were demanding their attention, in the same way that music takes hold of us. The vibrations go right through us. Color is music and music is color. Everything is vibration. It is up to each person to decide whether to take advantage of the beautiful sphere of colors they received as a birthday present, when they were born. Everyone can wear all colors. It is a question of choosing the same shade and intensity of each color to match their own shade and intensity of their personal colors.

The more we understand this, the more we can use it to our benefit. Harmony is beautiful and if we are not in harmony, inside and outside, the vibrations are out of tune. In music, and in color. It doesn´t feel good, nor do we want to have more of it, which means that we are not as attractive to people and don´t have that special magnetism, which everyone has, unless they hide it by using colors that don´t blend with their own colors. When our colors are not working together with our own distinct coloring, we are sending mixed messages to our surroundings.

Looking around the streets and cities, it looks as if we think we know better and don´t care whether we are projecting harmony or not. We seem to think something else is better and it´s no wonder, because so many people and businesses are using such screaming colors, in the belief that you need to scream loudest, whether it is a question of sound or colors, to get everyone´s attention. Yes, the ones, with the loudest vibrations, do get attention, but it is not as lasting an impact as when colors are used in harmony. The feeling will be different. You can´t look straight at the sun for too long, because it burns your eyes and makes you blind. This is a bit like what is happening, when we are constantly exposed to colors that don´t mix well with our own coloring, all around us.

Many want a certain look. If we only would first have a look in the mirror and determine, which are the colors that will give us the look we are trying to achieve, we would be able to choose colors, which give us that special look of magnetism, by enhancing our own best colors.  If you would like to make an impact with YOU, you need to step back and focus on your own colors and start building a new you from scratch. All that you will be building from now on, will be a building block for the rest of your life.

It is all very simple. You don´t have to find any exact colors, when shopping. It is enough that you learn to distinguish your own dominant color characteristic. Once you start experimenting, you will soon start feeling good in your own special colors.
There are only six different dominant color characteristics to choose from. Knowing that, you can then elaborate and fine tune your colors as much as you want to. 

The dominant color characteristics to choose from are:

LIGHT
DEEP
SOFT
CLEAR
WARM
COOL

Once you have found your own dominant color characteristic, you will know what to look for when shopping for anything in color. Many people want to live in their best colors and therefore choose the textiles in their homes in colors that enhance their own colors. Imagine sitting on a perfect color couch. You would be surrounded by colors that enhance you in every way! 

To learn more, you can get my Professional Shopping Guide HERE and learn the basics of where to start to build the rest of your life with colors that you will always feel confident in and will get the attention you deserve, in a beautiful way.

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